How do you deal with people who discourage you?
by breachforumst - Tuesday January 28, 2025 at 08:38 PM
#1
Hi BF,
(I will give an example from software, as I think almost everyone here will know). I was interested in software even before AI tools came out. However, after AI tools came out, I tell AI what I want to do (which technologies I will use, how the database will be, etc.) and I use it by analysing their responses.

But when I say this, people scold me or have a condescending attitude. They act as if success has no meaning because I use AI. However, when I think about it, the result is a successful product. Even if the product is not successful, code snippets that I may have overlooked are necessarily fixed - or there may be minor problems that even ai does not see lol

This situation is not limited to software. Even when I'm studying for normal school lessons, I sometimes encounter people's condescending attitudes, which really discourages and demotivates me. However, not everyone can learn at the same level. Isn't the important thing the effort you put forth? But people's condescension sometimes makes the effort invisible and kills the effort in you.
@DredgenSun I'd like to know your answer
Reply
#2
Thing you need to remember mate, is that if you're just living your best life, doing what you do without doing harm to others, then just ignore people who put you down.Fuck 'em. Just be the best you can be.
"Universal appeal is poison masquerading as medicine. Horror is not meant to be universal. It's meant to be personal, private, animal"
Reply
#3
not asked but yeah not giving a shit about others is the key. you live once so live however you want. i learned this in a hard way so believe me
Reply
#4
Just ignore them.
Reply
#5
Many people are suffering, jealous, have mental problems and they put that on you when they do things like this.
It's not always the case, but often the case.
It's not that you're messing up, it's that they're jealous and they don't want to put in the work to keep up with you so they shit on you hoping you will slow down.
Reply
#6
just don't care about them and finished your work
Reply
#7
everyone says that I shouldn't care, but because these things are demotivating, sometimes even out of 20 people, when 1 person out of 20 people says something negative, it inevitably discourages people, which is due to perfectionism, so the simpler and more realistic you live your life, the happier you will be in this life.
Reply
#8
"Nothing discourage a man than his though. " - El farado
LifeIsArt
Reply
#9
ignore them, simple.
Reply
#10
Tools change all the time why would you care what someone says about them..
Reply


Possibly Related Threads…
Thread Author Replies Views Last Post
  How Do People Unlock iCloud-Locked iPhones? vkei 21 716 04-15-2025, 04:43 AM
Last Post: vkei
  Are there more bad people or more kind people in the world abd0804 38 3,822 04-13-2025, 04:05 AM
Last Post: nastya_anna
  I want to meet serious people to actually make MONEY breach44832202 13 491 04-06-2025, 06:34 AM
Last Post: Phuckchop
  do people really read programming books end to end? empsevn 1 223 03-15-2025, 02:10 PM
Last Post: UtDredd
  Does money change people? k1083 54 1,971 03-06-2025, 05:53 AM
Last Post: dasfdsfwefdsafads

Forum Jump:


 Users browsing this thread: